Christ’s Thirst for Love

As Christ hung from the Cross he cried out, “I thirst” (John 19:28). He thirsts for love, for our love. In our Lord’s encounter with the Samaritan woman (John 4:4-44), he asks her: “Give me to drink.” Again, what he really longs for is her love.

But she does not feel loved, telling our Lord: “‘How is it that you, a Jew, ask a drink of me, a woman of Samaria?’ For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.” She won’t even give our Lord a cup of water because she sees just a Jewish male and not her God, her Lord, her Love. This reminds her of how she has been treated throughout her life: how Jewish men would look down on women as subservient creatures with no inherent dignity; how Jews in general were racists against Samaritans and treated them as lesser beings; how perhaps her mother, overwhelmed by the burden of so many children, treated her eldest daughter—this woman—more as a servant girl than as a daughter; how she sought love by marrying one man after another and how her husbands had divorced her because she never lived up to their expectations for a subservient wife.

This Samaritan woman presumes Jesus Christ sees her the same way, which is why she refuses his request for a drink. She thinks that he is talking to her because he just wants some “thing” from her, not because of who she is as a child of God.

Jesus can fill her every need as well as he own needs: “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.” God doesn’t need her; he doesn’t need us. He chooses to love us. In fact, God loves us into existence; he loves us just as we are, with all our defects and imperfections.

But he thirsts for a response of love, to give him a little bit of water, a little bit of love: “whoever gives to one of these little ones even a cup of cold water because he is a disciple, truly, I say to you, he shall not lose his reward” (Matthew 10:42). All Christ wants of us is a little bit of our time, our small Lenten sacrifice, our alms… a little bit of our love. Then he will give us everything we need. This is why Jesus Christ came to die on the Cross… he thirsts for our love and wants to reward that response by providing for us.

How did the Samaritan woman come to feel loved? She felt loved—perhaps for the first time in her life—when Jesus revealed her sins to her:

“Jesus said to her, ‘Go, call your husband, and come here.’ The woman answered him, ‘I have no husband.’ Jesus said to her, ‘You are right in saying, I have no husband; for you have had five husbands, and he whom you now have is not your husband; this you said truly’… So the woman left her water jar, and went away into the city, and said to the people, ‘Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?’”

The woman felt loved, because Christ revealed how her actions affected their relationship—her sins. Christ also revealed that God forgave her of her sins, that she is loved by him with all his heart: “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).

Knowing that God forgives us—that we are loved just as we are—transforms us. This is why the Sacrament of Reconciliation is so powerful. Let us take advantage of this Sacrament to experience God’s love this Lent, so as to transform our lives; invite your friends and family too.


Fr. John R. Waiss


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